One has the world at her feet. The other struggles across multiple fronts. Compare the everyday lives of an average 9 year old Kiwi girl like Isabella with that of a 9 year old in a remote, poor Cambodian village.
| A child like Isabella |
Cambodian child |
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Family income: |
Approx $70,000 2 income home |
$500+ pa |
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Health risks: |
Colds, sports injuries |
Stunted development, diarrhoea, dengue fever, typhoid common, malaria less common,
lethargy due to poor nutrition |
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Family size: |
2-3 children |
5 kids on average |
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Social inclusion: |
Children fussed over, valued |
Children often not asked what they think or feel |
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Security: |
Often taken places by car, parents usually vigilant |
Reasonably safe if stay in village. Children in very poor homes may be forced to become servants around 11 years of age, which can lead to trafficking. Domestic violence quite common |
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Status of women: |
Legal rights, social security safety net |
No social security if father leaves, no unemployment benefit |
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Average lunch: |
Sandwiches, snacks, fruit, juice cookie or biscuits, cheese, meat, yoghurt |
Rice, a thin lemon grass soup with perhaps a slice or 2 of fish. Rarely vegetables |
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Leisure time |
TV, computer games, sports, dance classes, movies, sleepovers and birthday parties, shopping, reading, bebo |
Chores after school like cooking, sweeping, collect water. Very few books Chasing dragon flies, playing in water, skipping, making mud pies, hand games |
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Education: |
Pre-school, primary then secondary schooling. Tertiary common. Computers common. |
From age 6, likely only 4 hours per day at primary level. Family pressure to join workforce from 13 or 14 years. No computers |
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Fears: |
Exclusion by peer group, embarrassing parents, lack of money, loss of cell phone |
Not having food to eat, fear of dark, domestic violence, storms, floods, loss of family members to diseases like AIDS, Malaria, Typhoid
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Hopes & dreams: |
Fame, limo rides, fashion, travel, friends and family, sporting or musical achievement, wealth, exciting job like lawyer, doctor or teacher |
Often not a consideration. Children in poverty rarely asked what they want for their future |